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Finding Home by Staying True to Himself: Mr. Reed’s Story

Mr. Reed describes himself as a lifelong traveler who has “never fit inside the box.” Born and raised in Washington, D.C., he has lived in several states, built a diverse career in skilled trades for DC Public Schools and federal work as a roofer at the Pentagon, and helped raise 13 children, including 3 of his own. Creative and reflective by nature, Mr. Reed enjoys collecting art pieces, creating flower arrangements, and hopes to one day write a book. He considers himself a spiritual man who values inner peace and connection with others.

Before receiving support, Mr. Reed experienced significant health challenges, including two strokes and two broken hips that required surgical repair. Despite these hardships, maintaining his independence remained his top priority. When he began working with his Supports Planner Elizabeth, Mr. Reed was renting a basement apartment where ongoing conflicts with a roommate, lack of supports, and limited financial resources made his living situation increasingly stressful and unsafe.

From the start, Elizabeth focused on understanding Mr. Reed’s strong desire for independence while also addressing his immediate health, housing, and safety needs.

Elizabeth worked closely with Mr. Reed to explore housing options, assisting him with applications despite long waitlists and limited availability due to income requirements. As challenges in his living situation escalated, Elizabeth continued to provide consistent guidance, emotional support, and advocacy. When independent housing was not immediately attainable, Elizabeth researched assisted living options that aligned with Mr. Reed’s preferences, in particular his wish to keep his personal belongings and avoid long-term placement.

With Elizabeth’s support, Mr. Reed transitioned into an assisted living facility in the spring. During his stay, his health improved significantly. He reported feeling less stressed, eating balanced meals, and developing meaningful social connections. Importantly, Elizabeth continued to keep Mr. Reed’s long-term goals of living independently at the center their planning.

By August, Mr. Reed successfully transitioned out of assisted living and into his own rental home in Charles County. When Elizabeth visited him in his new space, Mr. Reed was happily unpacking, singing, and decorating his room. His home allows him to access the community using his power wheelchair without physical barriers, further reinforcing his independence. Mr. Reed continues to set goals for himself that he can work toward with assistance from his Supports Planner.

Today, Mr. Reed remains goal-oriented and optimistic, continuing to work with Elizabeth to build the life he wants. Reflecting on his journey, Mr. Reed shared, “I believe success in life is not materialistic. It’s humanistic. It’s about inner peace.”

His story is a powerful example of how person-centered planning and dedicated support can lead to meaningful, lasting outcomes.

Learn more about how SCI supports people in achieving independence, stability, and meaningful lives at every stage of their journey by exploring more of our Impact Stories.